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Spring Cleaning: Ready for Something New?

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Seeking Simplicity

Clear Your Clutter, Change Your Life!

The Benefits of Space Clearing

Simplify!

Natural Cleaning Methods for Everyone

 

Spring Cleaning ~
Ready for Something New?

by Linda Herr
 
The reason most of this stuff is here
is because you didn't decide what to do
with it the last time you looked through it.

Many of the people I work with express interest in making changes to their lives other than just organizing their papers or desks. When I arrive at the site and get an overview of their workspace, it is often apparent to me that the entire environment is very uncomfortable. As I begin to make suggestions, it becomes obvious that they also feel this way. Many work environments are crowded, filled with distracting items. What can we do to change this?

First, decide how much time you can spend on a particular task. Three hours is an excellent amount of time. Should you only have a short time to devote to this, then decide to do just one drawer, shelf or pile at a time. Empty the space entirely, whether it's a desk, cupboard or drawer. Put back only what is necessary. Make decisions now. If you don't decide now, when will you? The reason most of this stuff is here is because you didn't decide what to do with it the last time you looked through it.

Most of us are "visuals" (my term for resource people), who will need to have some items close by. Visuals will often have to spend a substantial amount of time sorting their items because they tend to collect lots of materials. The best idea is to locate specific areas in which to sort the individual categories. You might use a big piece of scrap paper or a large box lid to identify each of these category locations.

In re-designing the workspace, keep in mind that most visuals need to have necessary materials where they can see them. For visuals, "out of sight" is "out of mind." This, of course, creates serious conflicts with their aesthetic partners, bosses or parents -- who feel entirely out of control when they see stuff. The "aesthetics" (my term for those who have very clean desks with little papers anywhere in sight) will need to clear off all items that are visible and find places for these items. Unlike visuals, aesthetics feel that anything on their desk makes it look messy.

If you are easily distracted, minimize the number of items with bright colors in front of you. Use bright colors only for things that are particularly important. Surround yourself with soothing calm colors, but keep the number of display items to a minimum or you will again create distractions.

If you are a visual, avoid stacking papers horizontally. Once you bury something under a pile of other work, you will probably forget about it. Keep the materials you have for reference together. These are usually filed alphabetically by subject. Critical, frequent-use references, however, should be kept close at hand.

Surprisingly, many people do not have the basic supplies to work on their tasks close at hand. They then leave their desks frequently to go procure these supplies from some other area. This creates another interruption.

Have a space identified for "Priority," "Dated/Soon" and "Someday" tasks. Move priority tasks to your planner. Identify a place for reading and take-home items.

Yes, with a few simple steps, even you can improve your workspace!

If you get stuck or need a motivational personal coach, call The Mess Arrester! Linda Herr is also available for productivity improvement, clutter control and business workshops. Call 907-352-3644 for voice mail.

For further tips, refer to Organize The Disorganized©-Tips and Techniques to Reduce Stress by Linda Herr, available at most local bookstores or call 352-3644.

 

Spring Cleaning for the Mind
by Jackie Kosednar

Spring's urge will soon be upon us. We will clean our houses, cars and yards, getting rid of winter's accumulation. What we forget about is our minds, the most important thing we need to clean.

Why clean the mind? It is easy for our minds to become cluttered up with negative thoughts, old unproductive emotions and garbage information. Some people just have dirty minds altogether (excuse the pun), and have never thought to clean them up. They may be carrying years of old garbage, such as condemnations and judgments. Garbage thinking can lead to depression, addiction and disease in the body. Alcoholics Anonymous calls it "stinkin’ thinking.’"

The real problem with having a dirty mind is how uncomfortable it can make you feel. Mental dirt (negative self-talk especially) is very toxic. Our memories can be full of unresolved conflicts, all holding an energetic charge. This energetic byproduct can be positive or negative. What creates the charge is emotions. A negative memory is always encoded with a negative feeling – anger, fear, bitterness, guilt, shame, etc. Every time you think the negative thought, it triggers the negative emotion that is embedded in the thought. Holding on to the past can thus create a lot of unhappiness.

Negatively-charged thoughts trigger biochemical processes in the body, making one weak and toxic. They can produce unproductive chemical responses that affect the immune system and create allergies. The fight, flight or freeze response can hype up the body, eventually wearing out the adrenals or pancreas. Guilt, shame and hurt turn off the immune system causing immune disorders. They can also shut down the endorphin production causing numbing and depression.

Fresh emotions hold a natural process of expression and elimination. For example, when you allow yourself to feel deep sadness, the body cries. Crying produces a reaction that counteracts and completes the sad feeling, flooding the body with neutralizing healing chemicals. Never miss an opportunity to cry! If allowed to complete its cycle, the fight, flight or freeze response eventually releases an "all is well" chemical that floods the body and neutralizes the toxic emotion.

The problem occurs when we “stuff” our feelings, don't allow ourselves to cry or immerse ourselves in a high-tech, stressful world. In such cases, our emotional processes never have a chance to finish. Then, we start them all over again by re-running negative scenarios in our head. The sub-conscious mind, which houses our autonomic nervous system, cannot distinguish between reality and fantasy. Think about any negative event and your body can produce the same chemical feelings as if it was happening all over again.

This is precisely why forgiving and letting go is such a powerful thing for all human beings. If we don't forgive, we weaken your bodies and allow emotional charges to build. In refusing to forgive, your mind justifies anger, bitterness or resentment, making you believe entitlement to those feelings. It thus becomes harder and harder to let go. Forgiveness heals the person doing the forgiving and has absolutely no effect on the one forgiven. Our minds may tell us not to forgive -- that we are letting others off the hook or making what they did okay. This is a lie.

As a matter of fact, our brains lie to us all the time. They exaggerate, minimize, and slant data to back up our current beliefs or perspective. Tell yourself the same lie three times and the brain will automatically begin to believe it is true. The mind needs to believe. We are believers by nature. I can't tell you the number of times a client says, "Why didn't I see the way they really were? Was I blind or stupid?" The answer is neither: we just believe what we want to be true. We want to believe the best of people, especially those close to us.

Being “believers,” we can accumulate a lot of false information as fact, when it is truly just garbage. To clean up your mind, start challenging the data you hold in your brain or that comes to you daily. It is a very simple technique to ask yourself: Is this true? That simple question will eventually clean out your whole brain, and the truth will literally set you free.

If your brain says, Yes, it is true, then question the proof: How do I know it is true? For example, if your mind says, “You are worthless; you just got fired from another job,” ask yourself: Am I worthless? Is that true? Does getting fired make people worthless? What about the other five jobs you had that awarded you for great performance? Self-esteem is a byproduct of positive programming about self. Your own programming is all that needs to change in order to raise self-esteem.

Questioning incoming data is also a good practice; especially if you believe everything you hear or read. Begin to ask yourself: Is this true? If you don't know if data is true or not, don't accept it as true. Just because the information pleases you or because someone tells you so, doesn't make it so. Not believing can be a very healthy thing.

Also, be aware of the assumptions made from incomplete data. Assumptions can lead to unhappiness and over-reactions. Don't allow your mind to jump to conclusions. Wait for the whole picture. When you question the truth of your programming, you will probably find that much of it was built on false assumptions. We are all over-reactive to some degree because of the current world situation. Fear can make us jump to the most negative conclusions.

A clean mind is a positive, simple mind. Along with positive thinking and re-framing negatives into positives, the most powerful thing we can do is meditate. If you just take a few minutes here and now to still the mind and become quiet, you will release stress. Daily meditation cleans your mind and meditation over a period of time also gives you control of your mind.

Effective mind cleaning takes some practice, but it is easy and free to do. So, don't give up even if the negatives seem insurmountable. As in learning any skill, you get better and better with practice.

Jackie Kosednar is a psycho-spiritual therapist, personal growth trainer, and the publisher of Alaska Wellness Magazine. She is also the author of the book, One Miracle After Another. For more, see www.healingtoby.com

 

Seeking Simplicity
by Dawn Baumann Brunke

"Out of clutter, find simplicity."

~Albert Einstein


"I'm learning to live with less," announced a friend one day as he stood in the hallway, peering into my office. "It's easy to get more," he said. "You can always get more. The real trick is learning to live with less."

I looked around the office -- desk scattered with books, notes, papers, half-written articles and stories; around the computer, a clutter of pens and pencils, diskettes, photos, gadgets and numerous other distractions. Above the desk, two wall-length rows of bookshelves were filled, and there were even more filled shelves behind me. No more room on the shelves had created a Stonehenge-like pattern of stacked books around the floor. Some stacks were nearly knee high. Chaos and clutter reigned supreme.

I sighed. For the last few months, I've been tackling each room in my house, trying to both organize and lighten up. Bags full of old clothes and household items have been donated, boxes of books and literary journals given away. Still, a lot of "stuff" remained. I wanted to be like my friend. I wanted to find the real trick of learning to live with less.

In the introduction to her book Simple Abundance, Sarah Ban Breathnach quotes Margaret Young: "Often people attempt to live their lives backwards; they try to have more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they want so that they will be happier. The way it actually works is the reverse. You must first be who you really are, then, do what you need to do, in order to have what you want."

How does this work? I read the words over and again. While they made sense on an intuitive level, how does one actually be who you really are? Especially in the midst of all this -- stuff? How does one find simplicity within all the clutter?

I wish I had an answer. Like so many of us, I want the quick fix. I want my house of thoughts and things to be neatly ordered. And yet I know this will never come to pass.

What Sarah Ban Breathnach found as she wrote her book about trying to eliminate clutter from her life was that a deeper search ensued. What began as a search to simplify became a quest for authenticity. She began asking the deeper questions we all ask ourselves once the clutter dies away, and what she found was that the true touchstone to order is the quiet center within.

Perhaps the excess clutter in our lives is a defense against authenticity -- a visible way of distracting ourselves from deepening. In these last few days of learning to practice simplicity, I am often surprised by the sudden light that shines unexpectedly through the clutter around me. I take a deep breath, recalling Ban Breathnach's suggestion that the search for an authentic life is one of the most personal forms of worship, for the authentic self is "the Soul made visible."

Dawn Baumann Brunke is the editor of Alaska Wellness and author of Animal Voices: Telepathic Communication in the Web of Life and Awakening to Animal Voices: A Teen Guide to Telepathic Communication with All Life. See www.animalvoices.net for more.

 

Clear Your Clutter, Change Your Life!
by Sheri Ruston
 
Every cleared drawer, closet and room gives you an opportunity to take control of your life. Your physical closet impacts your mental closet.

As spring approaches, we enter a great time of year to do some cleaning. Not many people realize how profoundly clutter can impact our lives. Rid yourself of clutter and you allow room for new things and opportunities to come into your life. Clutter in your home clutters your mind, body, and spirit.

People hold onto possessions for many reasons. An object can have sentimental value; the item was a gift; we feel we may need the object in the future; it is a collectible; someone in the family may have use for it in another lifetime, etc. Some people think that the more possessions we have, the more secure we will feel. Many people hold onto things for fear of not being able to acquire these items in the future. The mind is very powerful and can create a need for the item once thrown away if the person really believes this to be true. We have to trust that the Universe will provide for us in the future.

People with lots of clutter tend to be overweight. Our homes are mirror images of our lives. As we clear the clutter, we feel lighter. People with an overabundance of clutter tend to be sluggish, lack motivation, and may not take very good care of their body. Remember, your home is a reflection of who you are.

Basements represent the past. If cluttered, a basement may reveal unresolved past issues. Similarly, attics filled with clutter may result in worrying more about the future since these things are "hanging over" one's head. Garages, closets, attics and basements are just as important as any other room in the house. There is no place to hide anything. You may be the only one who sees a chaotic closet or attic, but you are the one who is constantly affected. Clutter and chaos drains and stagnates your energy. Clear out the mess and bring creativity, vitality, and vigor back into your life. Every place counts!

People often hold onto clothes that are too small or too big. In this way, we clutter our closets with an array of different size clothing. Buy clothes that make you feel good at the weight you are now. Clear away clothes that no longer fit. Love yourself for who you are now and you will lose the weight faster.

Hoarding paper and books is a very common problem. Holding onto old books doesn't allow room for new ideas to enter your life. Donate those books to the library or sell them to used bookstores. Only hold onto books that represent your thoughts today. Thanks to Internet access, saving newspaper and magazine clippings is no longer necessary, for having a computer is like having your own library at home.

One of the Feng Shui principles is to surround yourself with things you love. Don't feel obliged to keep a gift you dislike. If you don't feel comfortable telling the giver you can't use it, think of a creative way to recycle it. You can donate items to charity, have a garage sale, give them to friends, or just toss them away.

We are all constantly growing and changing. Our tastes change as we do. Therefore, don't feel you have to hold onto the same possessions for a lifetime. Permit yourself to discard possessions you no longer love or need.

Clear Away Questions:

  1. Do I love it or am I just living with it?
  2. Do I need it? Is it useful?
  3. Does this represent who I am in my life now?
  4. What positive or negative thoughts or memories do I associate with it?
  5. Does it need to be fixed or repaired, and am I willing to do so now?
  6. If it's time to let it go, am I going to sell or give it away? When will I do this?

Clearing clutter is very difficult for the majority of people. You may feel overwhelmed. If this is the case, do it gradually. Consider which rooms frustrate you the most. Then prioritize. Clear one room each month. Every cleared drawer, closet and room gives you an opportunity to take control of your life. Your physical closet impacts your mental closet.

In clearing clutter, you may experience a variety of emotions. While these must be dealt with, the rewards of clearing clutter are far greater. Bear in mind that everything you own is on loan. Even your physical body. When you pass on, you take nothing with you other than your soul. Store your memories in your heart and soul rather than your home. Simplifying your life will guarantee you the harmony and joy you were searching for.

Sheri Ruston of Feng Shui Journeys is a Certified Feng Shui Consultant. She helps people get organized. On-site or telephone consultations available. Call 929-0909, toll-free (866)929-0909 or e-mail gofengshui@gci.net.

 

The Benefits of Space Clearing
by Sheri Ruston

We all have the ability to sense energy. Have you ever noticed upon entering a room a feeling of tension or exhaustion? Or sensing joy and happiness for no apparent reason? Not only do we react to the décor and colors of rooms and spaces, we also perceive the energy or "chi" surrounding us.

Energy can become sluggish, stagnant and stuck. This is often true in the corners of rooms. Therefore, it needs to be dispersed and set into motion.

Space clearing is the ancient art of cleansing energy in an environment. It can transform a dismal place into a haven of harmony. To achieve space clearing, a sacred cleansing ceremony is usually performed. There are specific tools -- such as bells, white sage, and holy water, just to name a few -- that can be used. You can do this yourself or hire a professional.

Similar to rooms that collect cobwebs and dirt, which are visible to the naked eye, there is invisible debris that accumulates all around us. Just as it is necessary to vacuum and dust, it is vital to clear, purify and cleanse the energy of a space. The atmosphere will feel lighter and brighter. You may even feel uplifted emotions. Clear your clutter and clean thoroughly. Then clear the space.

Reasons for Space Clearing

Predecessor Energy: History tends to repeat itself. The odds are very high that you will inherit whatever problems past occupants experienced. Energy remains in the walls and foundation of homes. For example, Terri, a client, is having marital difficulties. Terri and her husband are living in separate bedrooms in their home. Unbeknownst to her until recently, the previous owners also had marital troubles and the husband moved his bedroom downstairs as well. If the people before you had health, money, weight or other problems, your life can be affected. Ideally, a space clearing should be performed before you move into your new home.

The same applies to an office space. If the previous business that occupied your space had any type of financial problems, most likely you will too. Perhaps the employees did not get along; most likely your employees will have the same disharmony.

Used Objects: Furniture, knick-knacks, jewelry, etc., also hold the energy of the previous owners. Everything has a consciousness. If the item had a strong emotional attachment to the prior owner, the vibration will be stronger. Many intuitive readers ask for an item that belongs to someone so that they can read the "vibration" of that particular person. In turn, they can describe everything about that person without ever meeting him or her.

After an Illness: Wash all bedding and clean the room thoroughly; then, do the space clearing. It is also a good idea to air out the room by opening all the windows with the intention to release the unhealthy energy and refresh the space.

After a Death: Although dying is a natural process, emotions and grief will remain after a death. Many cultures are very uncomfortable living in a place where a death occurred. Space clearing is an excellent way of cleansing the home to rid it from this emotional residue.

Manifesting Your Desires: You can create a space for something new to happen in your life by performing a clearing. It's a good idea to state your intention beforehand. For example, you may want to fill your home with energy that creates good health, joy and vitality. If you are stuck in a relationship, job or need a change in direction, space clearing can move that dormant energy.

To Sell or Rent a Home: When you desire to move, it's important to unblock stuck energy and clear space with that intent in mind.

To Enhance Profits in Business: If business is slow or sales are dropping, space clearing is an effective tool. Revitalizing, refreshing and cleansing the space have remarkable effects on a business.

To Create Harmony in the Workplace: If employees are not getting along, clearing will create a more positive and cheerful atmosphere.

After an Argument: Remember the saying, You can cut the tension with a knife? When a heated argument occurs, one can usually feel a thick, unwanted energy. Doing a clearing will release unpleasant energy and cleanse the room.

After a Robbery: It is imperative after a robbery to do a complete and thorough space clearing. Residual energy from the thief will remain in addition to your own grief-stricken emotions. This will continue to affect everyone living or working there.

Recurring Bugs or Rodent Problem: Mel, a client, had ant infestations in his home every spring for 25 years. I performed a space clearing and his home no longer has visiting ants. He was amazed.

For Therapists/Healers: Clear the room in-between patients. Clearing energies that were discharged from a previous patient helps establish a safe environment for healing. Create a sacred space for each client so that they may each heal on deeper levels.

Space clearings can be done on a regular basis. Remember to always state your intention. Along with Feng Shui adjustments, space clearing is a powerful tool that can transform your life. It is also an efficient method to rid your home or business of stuck energy and give yourself the fresh start that you so much deserve.

Recommended Readings:

bulletCreating Sacred Space with Feng Shui by Karen Kingston
bulletSacred Space by Denise Linn

Sheri Ruston of Feng Shui Journeys is a Certified Feng Shui Consultant. She performs Space Clearings. On-site or telephone consultations available. Call 929-0909, toll-free (866)929-0909 or e-mail gofengshui@gci.net.