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[ November/December 2002 ]

Healing the Heart

by Jean Bodeau

…the Heart is the ruler of all the organs, the one that controls our life destiny.
The life spirit of the Heart is the most critical to keeping us functioning
and happy.

There are an infinite number of ways for a heart to hurt. In fact, there are probably an infinite number for each person, and also for each animal. If I’ve learned one thing in my life, it is that our hearts are exquisitely sensitive and vulnerable, but also incredibly resilient. We all seek healing, and that seeking leads us on wild and unpredictable journeys. It leads us to religion and spirituality, to wilderness and therapy. On the darker side, it leads us to addictions, dysfunction, sometimes even to suicide. Often – usually - the path to healing takes us down before it takes us up. It may be that the Dark Night of the Soul is a prerequisite to becoming fully human. One thing is certain: no heart beats that hasn’t felt pain.

I started writing this piece out of a deep need to heal my own heart, having come most of the way through a very painful time, but still feeling pain linger on in my heart like a soapy sponge that doesn’t quite rinse out no matter how much fresh water runs through it. At the same time, I felt deep-bone tired. I realized that the truly difficult months had drained my heart, leaving me weary and worn, and that I was in deep need of spiritual renewal. It was then, in the slow aftermath, that heart healing practices seemed to make the greatest difference.

Over the years, I have gathered quite a collection of techniques for working with a saddened or heavy heart. The wisdom of many traditions and cultures touches on healing the heart. Every soul has its own intuition about how best to heal. Yoga, meditation, long walks in the mountains, gardening – the list is endless. I leave a description of the practices for another time, and look first at the energy of the heart, a foundational element in all healing.

Energetics Of The Heart
Many traditions have explored the energetic of the heart, developing ways to open and heal the heart. The Heart is recognized as a major energy center in the body, regardless of the terminology that is applied, be it chakra, energy center, the light within, or something else. The Heart Center is located midway between the nipples, in the chest. It is the location of the heart organ, and the area where many people intuitively feel their heart energy resides. Universally, the Heart is our connection to love and the divine.

In Chinese medicine, the Heart is the ruler of all the organs. It is the one that controls our life destiny, and the life spirit of the Heart is the most critical to keeping us functioning and happy. Organs, in the Chinese medical sense, encompass much more than the flesh itself. Each organ includes the spirit of the organ and the associated meridian, as well. In order to differentiate this larger sense, the name of the organ is typically capitalized. I follow that custom in this article.

Experientially, everyone has felt that when the Heart is open, loved, and loving, the chest area feels warm, spacious, and the whole central core, from belly to third eye, feels relaxed. In contrast, when the Heart is contracted, sad, or heavy, it feels tiny, hard, and isolated from the rest of the body.

According to Chinese medicine, emotions and the health of organs are mutually dependent. Thus, weak Heart energy can cause depression or another heart imbalance, and depression or difficulty with love or relationships can harm the Heart. When healing the Heart, it is helpful to have an understanding of some of the energetic imbalances one might have a history of, or be prone to develop. The main imbalances associated with the Heart, and the interrelated symptoms and causes, are:

Heart Qi Deficiency – Causes/results: Prolonged depression, sadness; boundary violations; abuse; lack of joy in life. Treatment: Use of herbs, acupuncture, Qi tonics; being around fire; having fun.

Heart Yang Deficiency – Similar to Heart Qi deficiency, but more pronounced; lack of mental clarity, apathy, and mental exhaustion. Treatment: As with Heart Qi deficiency, use of herbs, acupuncture, Qi tonics; being around fire; having fun.

Heart Blood Deficiency - Similar to Heart Qi deficiency, but with Yin deficiency. Causes/results: Prolonged depression, sadness, insomnia; poor memory; ungroundedness; lack of joy in life; feelings of vulnerability. Treatment: Use of herbs and acupuncture; more sleep; build Blood with more greens, more meat or fish.

Heart Yin Deficiency – Causes/results: Mania, agitation, anxiety; insomnia; too much stimulation; unstable love relationships; mouth sores; palpitations. Treatment: Slow down, rest; meditation and yoga; herbs and acupuncture.

Heart Qi Stagnation – Causes/results: Denying the Heart; prolonged sadness; blocked or stuck thinking; frustration, especially in relationships. Treatment: Listen to the Heart; have fun; use of herbs and acupuncture.

With a mindful awareness of one’s natural tendencies, it is possible to correct imbalances and to use symptoms as reminders of when it is time to nourish the Heart, body and soul.

Loving-Kindness Meditation
One meditation that is extremely healing for the Heart, is the classic Loving-Kindness (metta) meditation from the Buddhist tradition. The meditation is used to cultivate compassion, love, and equanimity. It is especially helpful for healing self-hatred. In practice, it is directed toward all beings, in turn focusing on four groups – oneself, friendly beings, neutral beings and difficult ones. The meditation goes something like this, though the words are best adapted by each person who practices:

May I be safe from danger. May all beings be safe from danger.
May I have peace of mind. May all beings have peace of mind.
May I have physical peace. May all beings have physical peace.
May I have ease of well being. May all beings have ease of well being.

This meditation and many spiritual practices in general, often end by dedicating the effort to the good of all. The practice of cultivating a compassionate intention can itself be a powerful and healing force in a world deeply in need of peace.

May the merits of this practice benefit all beings and bring peace.

Jean Bodeau is owner of Moonstone Acupuncture and Healing Center. She is currently working on a book of practices to heal the Heart.