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Our Children

Seeing Yourself and Others through New Eyes: The HANDLE Approach


by Ginger Drais

There is an old saying that “all children can learn.” The question, then, is: Why do some children not learn?


Most of my 25+ years in Alaska have been involved in trying to help children live more complete and full lives. As I worked in various aspects of Special Education around the state, I realized that schools were seriously missing the mark for many of the children with whom I worked. The children who most drew my attention were the ones who didn't make it in traditional education. They had labels. They were different. They moved really fast or really slow; noises and smells and lights often bothered them; they sometimes didn't look like other kids; and many of them were desperately lonely. There is an old saying that “all children can learn.” The question, then, is: Why do some children not learn?

Indeed, why did some children behave in ways that seemed strange or out of control? Why did some of the children I worked with cover their ears when someone used the pencil sharpener? Why did some put their heads down on the desk, insist on wearing a cap or hood, or crawl under the desk? Why did some pull away when someone took their hand? Why did some scream when the fire alarm would sound? Why did some become groggy or wild after lunch? Why did some look away when talking to you, or take long pauses before answering a question? Why did some constantly fidget? Why did some seemingly “get it” one day and not the next? All these things baffled me and those with whom I worked. We could not find answers for these children.

Near retirement, I took an introductory course on the HANDLE approach (Holistic Approach to NeuroDevelopment and Learning Efficiency). The instructor was Cathy Stingley, who is both the European Regional Education Director and Director of HANDLE of Homer. She taught the concepts developed by Judith Bluestone, whose triumph over her own significant neurodevelopmental difficulties led to the founding of the HANDLE approach.

During the introductory course I learned that some behaviors are our unconscious attempts to get our poorly functioning systems to function optimally. By careful observation of outward behaviors, HANDLE practitioners develop deceptively simple programs of activities based on scientific knowledge, which can actually make positive change at any stage of life, with any level of developmental differences.

HANDLE looks at the whole person: what happened before, during and after birth. This includes reactions to sound and light, to physical input, to motor planning, to interpersonal relationships, to the neurological system, to the digestive system and so much more. I learned during the class about neuroplasticity, the lifelong ability of the brain to build new neural pathways. And I learned that we're never too young or too old—or too different—to make positive change.

Gentle Enhancement, a trademark of HANDLE, recognizes that stressed systems shut down. Therefore the “no pain, no gain” way of learning or being can be counter-productive. HANDLE does not refer to Attention Deficit Disorder; rather, it looks at Attentional Priorities—the things that draw our attention which need to be addressed before learning can take place efficiently.

So, what does this mean? A child listening to a teacher present a topic may be distracted by uncomfortable clothing, or by the noise coming from the hall, or even by the teacher's bright, dangling earrings. By addressing these needs and helping to balance them, a HANDLE program can aid this child to focus and attend.

The behaviors of the children with whom I worked began to make sense. They were showing us what they needed—we just hadn't understood it! Children who cover their ears when someone uses the pencil sharpener may be sound sensitive. Children who put their heads down on the desk, or wanted a cap or hood, or crawled under the desk may be overwhelmed by light. Those who pulled away when someone took their hand may be sensitive to touch. Those who covered their ears at the fire alarm were likely in pain. Getting groggy or wild after lunch may mean too many simple carbohydrates and sweets. Looking away when talking to someone may indicate the child saw double, distorted or blurred images. Long pauses before answering a question or responding to a request likely meant he or she needed more time to process information. Those who were constantly fidgeting may have needed something in their hands to stimulate the very large area in the sensory/motor cortex of the brain that corresponds to the hands, thus keeping themselves centered, focused and alert.

Wanting to know more about HANDLE and myself, I arranged with Cathy to have an assessment. Through a series of carefully designed and intuitive, respectful questions and observing how I completed varied tasks and movement activities, Cathy designed a HANDLE Profile that was clearly me. It presented me as a whole person, taking into account my life history. Although I had often held responsible, high level jobs in my field, I would often end the day exhausted, with a sense of feeling overwhelmed. My lifelong issues included difficulties with organization, multi-tasking, allergies, light and sound sensitivity and more. The puzzle that was me began to come together.

After the shock of realizing how hard I had been working all my life, I felt a sigh of relief in knowing that something could be done about it. The home-based program of activities developed from my Profile, worked well for me. This program took approximately 20 minutes per day of simple but powerful activities (such as gentle, specific rocking and rhythmic head tapping). Within weeks I began to have more energy and was more organized at work. I could do more things at the same time without getting sidetracked. Light and sound sensitivity were reduced.

I realized that many of the children I knew had also been working extra hard for the successes they experienced. We had something in common!

What I had learned left me believing in the validity of the HANDLE paradigm. I then attended the Intermediate Course in London. My classmates were an impressive group. These participants were from eight European countries and included parents of children with significant special needs, a Psychologist, Occupational Therapists, Teachers, a Nurse, a Physical Therapist, and various Alternative Health Care Providers. The course was both demanding and exhilarating. Following this training I began to do brief screenings to identify red flags and assign short HANDLE programs to address learning difficulties, attentional difficulties, speech problems, behavioral issues and minor physical difficulties.

Now I knew some things that would have helped those kids I once knew: simple activities to help the muscles of the eyes work as a team for binocularity so they could begin to read; limiting sugar and simple carbohydrates to help them stay alert and awake and in control during the school day; allowing—and even encouraging—them to have a quiet fidget tool that would have helped them pay attention; protecting them from sounds that would distract or hurt their ears. This was exactly what I was searching for!

I am now studying at the Advanced level to become a Certified HANDLE Practitioner. When I complete my training and internship I will be able to help develop individual programs that will address issues of learning, behavior, self-control, attention, sensitivities, physical movement and ways to be more successful in daily life. My goal is to help bring HANDLE to Mexico, where I live for much of the year.

For those who want to learn more, I highly recommend Judith Bluestone’s book, The Fabric of Autism: Weaving the Threads Into a Cogent Theory. It tells Judith's inspiring personal story, describes human functioning based on neuroscientific research and explains the HANDLE paradigm. This book is about far more than autism. I also recommend Bluestone’s The Churkendoose Anthology: True Stories of Triumph over Neurological Dysfunction. For more information about HANDLE, visit www.handle.org or call HANDLE of Homer at (907)235-6226.

Ginger Drais, M.Ed., is a teacher of the Deaf, a student of HANDLE, the grandmother of 6, kayaks as often as she can, loves to travel, and lives in Mexico and Alaska.